Resources

How is the patient paying for services? How will they get to the appointment? As a support person, you can help with these efforts. When the patient calls us at (301) 932-1222 they will be asked if they need help with funding for the appointment, or with travel, hotel, gas, etc. You can also offer help with these costs if you have the resources to do so.

Ask the patient questions like “How can I support you?” and “Do you want to talk about it, or would you just like company?” You can also give comforting statements like “I am here for you,” and “You do not need to go through this alone.” There is no one “right” way to feel before or after an abortion, so it’s important to offer non-judgmental support. Stock up on the patient’s favorite snacks. Offer to go with the patient to their appointment, or give a ride. Pick up prescriptions, stock up on over-the-counter pain medications, or pick up menstrual pads or a heating pad. After the patient is home, offer to help with household tasks or childcare so the patient can relax or sleep.

Respect the patient’s privacy before, during, and after an appointment. Do not share any information about the patient or the abortion with anyone without the patient’s permission.

Abortion is a safe, legal procedure in Maryland. If you or someone you know needs an abortion, our office offers abortion services up to 34 weeks. Please see the following resources for any legal help you might need:

1. Abortion Criminal Defense Initiative– American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) is a resource if you are being investigated, threatened with arrest or criminal charges, or charged with a crime for allegedly having obtained an abortion, helped someone get an abortion or provided an abortion.
2. Repro Legal Helpline– speak to a lawyer about any legal questions regarding abortion. They also offer legal support if you are arrested or charged with a crime relating to abortion.